Saturday, May 28, 2022

Conference Reaction (from April 2022)

My impressions: I never heard so many references to being/becoming the children of Christ! Other themes that I heard: missionary service/gathering Israel, the "cause," washing feet, happiness of saints, mighty change/song of redeeming love, repentance/childlike/Mosiah 3:19, deliverance (different for all), story of Naaman (he was mentioned more than once). ...

A friend pointed out that several speakers referenced recent Come Follow Me topics and Old Testament stories - and I've been thinking about that ever since.  The parallels between our Old Testament studies and what is happening today has been impressed upon my mind!

Thursday, April 9, 2020

October 2019 Conference Themes Expanded

This post is split into the different themes.  There were certainly other themes, but these are the ones I wanted to follow and study closer in preparation for General Conference this weekend!  Emphasis in quotes is mine unless otherwise noted.

  1. Joy
  2. Recent Nelson Quotes
  3. Covenant Path
  4. Personal Revelation
  5. Second Coming

1.  Joy

These quotes are in conference order.  Each relevant speaker is divided by "----------"

Elder Terence M Vinson of the Presidency of the Seventy introduced to many of us the idea of "fair dinkum," - people who are what they say they are (who give their all):
Giving our all doesn't mean that we will be continually enveloped in blessings or always have success. But it does mean that we will have joy. Joy is not fleeting pleasure of even temporary happiness. Joy is enduring and is founded on our efforts being accepted by the Lord.
Quoting King Lamoni's father from Alma
"Behold, said he, I will give up all that I possess, yea, I will forsake my kingdom, that I may receive this great joy."
Elder Vinson admonished us to "Get fair dinkum now and feel the joy!"
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President Stephen W. Owen, Young Men General President hit ALL FOUR of my categories in his talk.  On joy, he speaks of the contrast the spiritually malnourished with the following:
You know that you are sons and daughters of God and that He has a work for you to do. You love God with all your “heart, might, mind and strength.”6 You keep your covenants and serve others, beginning at home. You exercise faith, repent, and improve each day, and this brings you enduring joy. You are preparing for temple blessings and other opportunities you will have as true followers of the Savior. And you are helping prepare the world for the Second Coming, inviting all to come unto Christ and receive the blessings of His Atonement. You are connected with heaven.
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Elder Christofferson's talk was titled, "The Joy of the Saints," and it appears to be based on Russell M. Nelson's talk from October 2016 entitled "Joy and Spiritual Survival," so you can read both of those for more, but here are some specific quotes I pulled out on joy.  If they were direct quotes from President Nelson, they are in the Nelson section also.  First he introduces the topic from Enos, noting how thinking of the joy of the saints inspired Enos:
There is much to be learned from Enos’s experience, but today what stands out in my mind is Enos’s memory of his father speaking often of “the joy of the saints.”
He quotes a beautiful passage by President Russell M. Nelson which I love:
“The joy we feel has little to do with the circumstances of our lives and everything to do with the focus of our lives.
“When the focus of our lives is on God’s plan of salvation … and Jesus Christ and His gospel, we can feel joy regardless of what is happening—or not happening—in our lives. Joy comes from and because of Him. … For Latter-day Saints, Jesus Christ is joy!”3
He builds on this quote with the following, all still in his introduction:
Saints are those who have entered into the gospel covenant through baptism and are striving to follow Christ as His disciples.4 Thus, “the joy of the saints” denotes the joy of becoming Christlike.
I would like to speak of the joy that comes from keeping His commandments, the joy that arises from overcoming sorrow and weakness through Him, and the joy inherent in serving as He served.
Skipping forward some:
Even when we are found faithfully keeping the commandments, there are trials and tragedies that could interrupt our joy. But as we strive to overcome these challenges with the Savior’s help, it preserves both the joy we feel now and the joy we anticipate. Christ reassured His disciples, “In the world ye shall have tribulation: but be of good cheer; I have overcome the world.”13 It is in turning to Him, obeying Him, binding ourselves to Him that trial and sorrow are turned to joy. 
Quoting a man who was paralyzed during a family vacation, whose wife took care of him for the next 23 years, and who was a Patriarch once he was able to speak, his testimony is profound to me:
"… My faith never wavered, but that didn’t mean that I didn’t have depressions. I think for the first time in my life, I was pushed to the limit, and literally there was nowhere to turn, and so I turned to the Lord, and to this day, I feel a spontaneity of joy.”18
Finishing out the section on joy of overcoming through Christ:
In the Garden of Eden, Adam and Eve were “in a state of innocence, having no joy, for they knew no misery.”20 Now, as accountable beings, we find joy in overcoming misery in whatever form, whether it be sin, trial, weakness, or any other obstacle to happiness. This is the joy of sensing progress in the path of discipleship; the joy of “having received a remission of … sins, and having peace of conscience”;21 the joy of feeling one’s soul expand and grow through the grace of Christ.22
 Skipping forward again,
The fruits of our service to one another in the Church are part of the joy "set before us." Even in times of discouragement or stress, we can minister patiently if we are focused on the joy of pleasing God and bringing light, relief, and happiness to His children, our brothers and sisters.
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Elder Dale G. Renlund mentioned in passing (not quoted here) of the joy of the Congolese in having a temple dedicated in their land, and a little of God's promise of joy:
The Savior invited His disciples to be this dependable and steadfast. He said, “Wherefore, settle this in your hearts, that ye will do the things which I shall teach, and command you.” A “settled” determination to keep our covenants allows for the full realization of God’s promise of enduring joy.
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2.  Recent Nelson Quotes

I decided to organize these by quotes, because several speakers used the same quote or talk, which I felt was interesting and double-witnessing!

Mission Leadership Seminar in June 2019

Found in the footnotes (18) of Elder Renlund's talk:
In the mission leadership seminar in June 2019, after partaking of the sacrament, before beginning his formal message, President Russell M. Nelson said: “A thought has occurred to me that my making a covenant today is a lot more important than the message that I have prepared. I made a covenant as I partook of the sacrament that I would be willing to take upon me the name of Jesus Christ and that I am willing to obey His commandments. Often, I hear the expression that we partake of the sacrament to renew covenants made at baptism. While that’s true, it’s much more than that. I’ve made a new covenant. You have made new covenants. … Now in return for which He makes the statement that we will always have His Spirit to be with us. What a blessing!”

"Becoming Exemplary Latter-day Saints," conference talk from October 2018

Regardless of your circumstances, you can make your home the center of gospel learning and living. It simply means taking personal responsibility for your conversion and spiritual growth. It means following President Nelson’s counsel “to [remodel your] home into a sanctuary of faith.”
"The Correct Name of the Church," conference talk from October 2018

Starting right off the bat, in the first talk of the first session, Elder Holland brings in President Nelson's recent effort to have us use the revealed name of the Church of Jesus Christ.  Elder Holland references the talk from October 2018, entitled, "The Correct Name of the Church."  He almost mentioned it in passing, and yet, I can see how his entire talk may have been based on pondering WHY President Nelson emphasized using the correct name of the church - to shift our focus to Jesus Christ.  Holland says He (Jesus) is the "ominpresent central figure in this marvelous chronicle [The Book of Mormon], standing like a colossus over virtually every page of it and providing the link to all of the other faith-promoting figures in it."  Jesus is the Focus we often forget to callibrate to - He is symbolized everywhere, and we too often overlook Him.
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"Opening Remarks," conference talk from October 2018

I testify that the Lord knows about our challenges, and through the leadership of President Nelson, He is preparing us to meet them. I believe that the prophet’s recent call for a home-centered church, supported by what we do in our buildings,7 is designed to help us survive—even thrive—in this day of spiritual malnutrition.
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“Revelation for the Church, Revelation for Our Lives," conference talk from April 2018

We live in a world that is complex and increasingly contentious. The constant availability of social media and a 24-hour news cycle bombard us with relentless messages. If we are to have any hope of sifting through the myriad of voices and the philosophies of men that attack truth, we must learn to receive revelation.
Sister Michelle Craig (1st counselor in YW) based her entire talk on the following quote, stating after this quote that she will speak about "four ways to increase your spiritual capacity to receive revelation:"
"My beloved brothers and sisters, I plead with you to increase your spiritual capacity to receive revelation. … Choose to do the spiritual work required to enjoy the gift of the Holy Ghost and hear the voice of the Spirit more frequently and more clearly."
She also inline-quoted an earlier phrase from this Nelson talk, saying: "You will increasingly recognize God's guidance and that He is 'willing ... to reveal His mind and will.'"

"Joy and Spiritual Survival," conference talk from October 2016
From Elder Christofferson quoting President Nelson,
“The joy we feel has little to do with the circumstances of our lives and everything to do with the focus of our lives.
“When the focus of our lives is on God’s plan of salvation … and Jesus Christ and His gospel, we can feel joy regardless of what is happening—or not happening—in our lives. Joy comes from and because of Him. … For Latter-day Saints, Jesus Christ is joy!”
Also,
“As in all things, Jesus Christ is our ultimate exemplar, ‘who for the joy that was set before him endured the cross’ [Hebrews 12:2]. Think of that! In order for Him to endure the most excruciating experience ever endured on earth, our Savior focused on joy!
“And what was the joy that was set before Him? Surely it included the joy of cleansing, healing, and strengthening us; the joy of paying for the sins of all who would repent; the joy of making it possible for you and me to return home—clean and worthy—to live with our Heavenly Parents and families.”
Also, in his tag, Elder Christofferson says:
With President Russell M. Nelson, I testify that joy is a gift for faithful Saints “who have endured the crosses of the world”30 and who are “intentionally trying to live a righteous life, as taught by Jesus Christ.”

3.  Covenant Path


Where do we find true spiritual nourishment? Most often, it is not trending on social media. We find it when we “press [our] way forward” on the covenant path, “continually holding fast to the rod of iron,” and partake of the fruit of the tree of life.3 This means that we must deliberately take time each day to disconnect from the world and connect with heaven.
From Elder Dale G. Renlund of the 12:
Individuals who enter the Kinshasa Temple see an original painting entitled Congo Falls. It uniquely reminds temple-goers of the unwavering commitment required to anchor themselves to Jesus Christ and to follow the covenant path of our Heavenly Father’s plan.
Also:
Personal desires that are contrary to being anchored to the Savior and to following the covenant path fade away and are replaced by a determination to submit to the will of Heavenly Father. 
Also:
They metaphorically threw their old ways into a churning waterfall with no intention of retrieving them. The covenant path was never easy. 
Lastly:
Conscientiously preparing for and worthily making these covenants each week anchors us to the Savior, helps us internalize our commitment, and powerfully propels us along the covenant path. 
President Oaks, in passing:
Excessive reliance on personal teachings or speculations may even draw us aside from concentrating on learning and efforts that will further our understanding and help us go forward on the covenant path.

4.  Personal Revelation

Sister Michelle Craig's (YW 1st C) entire talk was on increasing our spiritual capacity to receive revelation.

President Oaks said that while personal revelation is personally edifying, we shouldn't rely on others' personal revelation, nor preach from the pulpit things that aren't doctrine (yet).  He also almost as an aside encourages us to seek our own revelation for our own comfort and edification.
We can all wonder privately about circumstances in the spirit world or even discuss these or other unanswered questions in family or other intimate settings. But let us not teach or use as official doctrine what does not meet the standards of official doctrine. To do so does not further the work of the Lord and may even discourage individuals from seeking their own comfort or edification through the personal revelation the Lord’s plan provides for each of us.


5.  Second Coming


President Stephen W. Owen, Young Men General President hit ALL FOUR of my categories.  You may recognize this quote from the JOY section; he speaks of the contrast the spiritually malnourished with the following:
You know that you are sons and daughters of God and that He has a work for you to do. You love God with all your “heart, might, mind and strength.”6 You keep your covenants and serve others, beginning at home. You exercise faith, repent, and improve each day, and this brings you enduring joy. You are preparing for temple blessings and other opportunities you will have as true followers of the Savior. And you are helping prepare the world for the Second Coming, inviting all to come unto Christ and receive the blessings of His Atonement. You are connected with heaven.


Monday, April 6, 2020

Conference Reaction

I loved general conference last weekend.  It was as President Nelson prophesied - both memorable and unforgettable!

Themes that stood out to me:

Jesus Christ - the center, the new label
The Book of Mormon
Joseph Smith and the First Vision (of course, being the Bicentennial year)
The Priesthood

The Hosanna Shout was amazing.  I was brought to tears.  It being Palm Sunday also seemed poignant - even important!  I have heard that the last days of Christ's life are symbolic of the last days before His second coming, and I keep wondering if the Shout may have ushered us in!

Sunday, October 6, 2019

October 2019 General Conference Themes and Reactions

Another general conference in the books, and it was a good one.

The Changes:

  • Ward YM presidencies discontinued
  • Quorum presidencies - Bishop over Priests, 1st Counselor over Teachers, 2nd Counselor over Deacons
  • Relief Society and YW leaders may be assigned to counsel with individuals in their organizations
  • YW Presidents report directly to the bishop
  • A high councilman will be the Stake YM President
  • BYC replaced with a Ward Youth Council
  • "Mutual" name retired, replaced by YW activities, YM activities, youth activities
  • "Auxiliaries" changed to "Organizations"
  • Completely new YW Theme
  • New organizational structure for YW meetings, dependent on unit's needs
  • Discontinuation of Beehive, Mia Maid, and Laurel labels
  • 8 new temples announced (once all are completed, the total will be 217)
  • New wording to temple interview questions
  • Special Bicentennial First Vision General Conference April 2020


Did I catch them all??

Themes I picked up from October 2019 conference:
  • Joy
  • Personal revelation
  • Jesus Christ - He's mentioned a lot, of course, but in particular (Holland, Aliaud, Harkness)
  • Covenants and Holiness 
I expect I'll pull out these themes over the next 6 months as we study this conference.

Other thoughts:

At least two speakers (D. Todd Christofferson & Neil L. Anderson) talked about individuals with paralysis.  This stood out to me, because one of our twins may deal with some paralysis.  It reminded me that the year that our son, Thomas, died, there were almost 10 talks that had to do with death, some specifically the death of an infant/child.  So when I heard the second mention near the end of conference, it perked my ears up as if to say - there may be a message for me in these talks, and I'll have to look through them more closely.

I felt that President Nelson in his talk during the Women's Session was the clearest, most straight-forward of anyone that I've heard speak about women and the priesthood.  When we are set apart, we are given priesthood authority.  When we are endowed, we are endowed with priesthood power.  I feel like this has been hinted at before, but President Nelson spoke as clear as he could be.

2 individuals quoted the "Come & see, come & help, come & stay"

I want to especially look back over President Eyring's Sunday morning talk.

Friday, June 14, 2019

His Friend vs. His Disciple

FRIEND

Christ's friends are those given Him of the Father (Doctrine & Covenants 84:63)
--- This one is the same definition as His sheep from John 10:27-29
His friends have an inheritance with Him (Doctrine & Covenants 93:45)
Jesus gave His life for His friends (John 15:13)
---  This one also seems the same as the seed of Christ from Mosiah 15:11-12
We are His friends if we do whatsover He commands (John 15:14)
---  This seems to be connected with LOVE (John 14:15), which disciple is also connected with (see below)
Friends are greater than servants, because He makes all things known to them (John 15:15)
Friends are gifted the Holy Spirit of Promise (Doctrine & Covenants 88:3)
Friends preach the gospel in His power (Doctrine & Covenants 84:77)
---  This one is like Christ's seed in Mosiah 15:14


DISCIPLE

His disciples love Him more than their own family members (Luke 14:26)
His disciples are His brother, sister, mother (Matthew 12:49)
---  This seems to be greater than servants (like friends)
His disciples do the will of the Father (Matthew 12:50)
His disciples take up their cross (crucify the natural man) (Luke 14:27)
His disciples forsake all they hath (Luke 14:33)
His disciples receive witness of the Father (John 6:65-66)
His disciples have love for each other as Jesus has for them (John 13:34-35)
His disciples continue in His word (John 8:31)
---  This one sounds to me like doing whatsoever He commands (like friends, in John 15:14)
His disciples abide in Him and His words abide in them (John 15:7-8)
His disciples ask what they will and it is done (John 15:7)
His disciples glorify the Father by bearing much fruit (John 15:8)
Jesus shows Himself unto His disciples (John 21:1)
---  I might be reading too much into the verse
We could also say His disciples walk with Him.
His disciples are a light unto people (3 Nephi 15:12)
His disciples speak the words of Christ (Ether 4:10)
His disciples partake of the Sacrament in remembrance (3 Nephi 18:7-8)



CONCLUSIONS

Well, I think one could surmise that His Friend is His disciple is His sheep is His seed.
What do you think?

Friday, March 8, 2019

Let's Discuss: "For Him," by Joy D. Jones

By Joy D. Jones, Primary General President
General Women's Session, 6 October 2018

Hymn recommendations:
73  Praise the Lord with Heart and Voice
98  I Need Thee Every Hour
102  Jesus, Lover of My Soul
129  Where Can I Turn for Peace?
220  Lord, I Would Follow Thee

Favorite quote:
When He takes the preeminent position in our lives by our deliberate choice, then He is able to bless our actions to our good and to the good of others.
and
We can make each item on our to-do list become a way to glorify Him.  We can see each task as a privilege and opportunity to serve Him, even when we are in the midst of deadlines, duties, or dirty diapers. 
Something to put on the board:
"I have only been in the service of God." Mosiah 2:16
One-sentence Synopsis:
Glorify God through all our service (especially ministering) and daily tasks, by doing everything out of our Love for Him.
Talk and Discussion questions:
(Emphasis in original except text-size changes or otherwise indicated)
I have a lot of favorite quotes from this talk, it was hard to single a couple out.  This was a talk chosen for our Relief Society lesson this coming Sunday.  I enjoyed analyzing it, although it is another talk I don't think I would have chosen!  That's why I'm not in charge.  ;)  I might have overlooked some of the gems in here.
On this historic night, I express my love and appreciation to each of you, my dear sisters. Whatever our age, location, or circumstance, we gather tonight in unity, in strength, in purpose, and in testimony that we are loved and led by our Heavenly Father; our Savior, Jesus Christ; and our living prophet, President Russell M. Nelson.
Just a reminder, this was a historic night because it was the first time the General Women's Session was on the same Saturday as the first two sessions of General Conference (instead of the week before), with no Priesthood Session, and the first time (at least in our generation) the entire First Presidency spoke at a Women's meeting.
As a young couple, my husband and I were called by our bishop to visit and minister to a family who hadn’t been to church in many years. We willingly accepted the assignment and went to their home a few days later. It was immediately clear to us that they did not want visitors from the Church.
So on our next visit, we approached them with a plate of cookies, confident that chocolate chips would melt their hearts. They didn’t. The couple spoke to us through the screen door, making it even clearer that we weren’t welcome. But as we drove home, we were fairly certain success might have been achieved had we only offered them Rice Krispies Treats instead.
Have you ever had a visiting teaching or ministering assignment like this?  Do you have one now?  How did you proceed?  How did you keep from discouragement?

I have been assigned various inactive sisters.  One I called on the phone, and we hit it off, or so I thought, and then she never answered the phone again.  I sent her a monthly card with information on the upcoming activities, maybe something I had studied recently or a short quote from the VT message, and my phone number in case she needed anything.  I have no idea if she even opened my cards, but I considered myself a lifeline to the Church should she ever need it.  To me, people are at different stages of their lives.  Some stages take some people away from full activity in the Church, and that's ok.  They will have so much perspective and experience to offer when they choose to return to activity.  Now, let's learn what Sister Jones and her husband did.
Our lack of spiritual vision made additional failed attempts frustrating. Rejection is never comfortable. Over time we began to ask ourselves, “Why are we doing this? What is our purpose?”
Elder Carl B. Cook made this observation: “Serving in the Church … can be challenging if we are asked to do something that frightens us, if we grow weary of serving, or if we are called to do something that we do not initially find appealing.”1 We were experiencing the truth of Elder Cook’s words when we decided we had to seek direction from Someone with a greater perspective than our own.
How often do we let things go kind of far before we remember to seek God's direction?!  How can we remember to do this earlier?  More often?  Always?
So, after much sincere prayer and study, we received the answer to the why of our service. We had a change in our understanding, a change of heart, actually a revelatory experience.2 As we sought direction from the scriptures, the Lord taught us how to make the process of serving others easier and more meaningful. Here is the verse we read that changed both our hearts and our approach: “Thou shalt love the Lord thy God with all thy heart, with all thy might, mind, and strength; and in the name of Jesus Christ thou shalt serve him.”3 Though this verse was so familiar, it seemed to speak to us in a new and important way.
Sister Jones and her husband turned to prayer and scripture study, as they sought direction from the scriptures.  Would anyone like to share a time when you sought and received direction through sincere prayer and searching the scriptures?
We realized that we were sincerely striving to serve this family and to serve our bishop, but we had to ask ourselves if we were really serving out of love for the Lord. King Benjamin made clear this distinction when he stated, “Behold, I say unto you that because I said unto you that I had spent my days in your service, I do not desire to boast, for I have only been in the service of God.”4
Their answer had to do with serving out of love for the LORD.  How is serving out of love for the Lord different than other service otherwise?  Can you think of an example from your life?  Service without love of the Lord may involve having our heart set on just getting the job done (checking it off the list), or looking for someone's appreciation, honor, or praise to be given to us for our service.  Maybe we don't really want to serve, so our heart isn't in it, and we do it grudgingly or with disdain or imagining it as a heavy burden or inconvenience.  What I have noticed is that:  When I involve the Lord, He often shows me a better way of doing whatever I'm doing.
So whom was King Benjamin really serving? Heavenly Father and the Savior. Knowing the who and the why in serving others helps us understand that the highest manifestation of love is devotion to God.
As our focus gradually changed, so did our prayers. We began looking forward to our visits with this dear family because of our love for the Lord.5 We were doing it for Him. He made the struggle no longer a struggle. After many months of our standing on the doorstep, the family began letting us in. Eventually, we had regular prayer and tender gospel discussions together. A long-lasting friendship developed. We were worshipping and loving Him by loving His children.
What do you think Sister Jones means when she says "He made the struggle no longer a struggle?"  How can we learn from this idea?  How can we consecrate what we do to the Lord?
Can you think back on a time when you lovingly reached out with sincere effort to help someone in need and felt that your efforts went unnoticed or perhaps were unappreciated or even unwanted? In that moment, did you question the value of your service? If so, may the words of King Benjamin replace your doubt and even your hurt: “Ye are only in the service of your God.”6
Sister Jones makes it sound so easy to turn resentment or rejection around!  Is it really that easy?
Rather than building resentment, we can build, through service, a more perfect relationship with our Heavenly Father. Our love for and devotion to Him preempts the need for recognition or appreciation and allows His love to flow to and through us.
How can we love Heavenly Father and Jesus more?  How do we turn around the negative feelings that sometimes tempt us and allow His love to flow to and through us?
Sometimes we may initially serve from a sense of duty or obligation, but even that service can lead us to draw on something higher within us, leading us to serve in “a more excellent way”7—as in President Nelson’s invitation to “a newer, holier approach to caring for and ministering to others.”8
I love this part of the talk, because I have often wondered why we should even bother serving if we don't feel like it, aren't in the mood, or maybe even resent it, although we know it's our duty.  She gives the answer right there:  "even that service can lead us to draw on something higher within us."  Service leads to true service.  Often the true spirit of loving service catches up to us before we are finished serving.
When we focus on all that God has done for us, our service flows from a heart of gratitude. As we become less concerned about our service magnifying us, we realize instead that the focus of our service will be on putting God first.9
You may like to take a couple of minutes and count blessings.  God truly has done and continues to do so much for us.  However, it is surprisingly easy to forget.  We take so much for granted.  How can we have hearts of gratitude?
President M. Russell Ballard taught, “It is only when we love God and Christ with all of our hearts, souls, and minds that we are able to share this love with our neighbors through acts of kindness and service.”10
The first of the Ten Commandments reiterates this divine wisdom: “I am the Lord thy God. … Thou shalt have no other gods before me.”11 The placement of this commandment helps us understand that if we place Him as our main priority, everything else will ultimately fall into place—even our service to others. When He takes the preeminent position in our lives by our deliberate choice, then He is able to bless our actions to our good and to the good of others.
Is the Lord at the preeminent position in our lives?  If not, someone or something else is, and that thought worries me!  How do we deliberately choose Him?  Share your answers in the comments.
The Lord counseled, “Look unto me in every thought.”12 And each week we covenant to do just that—to “always remember him.”13 Can such a godly focus apply in everything we do? Can performing even a menial task become an opportunity to demonstrate our love and devotion to Him? I believe it can and will.
We can make each item on our to-do list become a way to glorify Him. We can see each task as a privilege and opportunity to serve Him, even when we are in the midst of deadlines, duties, or dirty diapers.
I love this - I came to a very similar conclusion just last year.  The Lord loves it when we involve Him - even in the mundane!  Everything we do can be with more grace, love, and Christlike character, when we use it as a way to glorify Him.   What are things you do to help remember Him in the mundane?  Do you ever set reminders on your phone to pray or worship, or thank Him?  What else can we do?
As Ammon said, “Yea, I know that I am nothing; as to my strength I am weak; therefore I will not boast of myself, but I will boast of my God, for in his strength I can do all things.”14
When serving our God becomes our main priority in life, we lose ourselves, and in due course, we find ourselves.15
Sounds so easy, right?!
The Savior taught this principle so simply and directly: “Therefore let your light so shine before this people, that they may see your good works and glorify your Father who is in heaven.”16
May I share with you some words of wisdom that were found on the wall of an orphanage in Calcutta, India: “If you are kind, people may accuse you of selfish, ulterior motives. Be kind anyway. What you spend years building, someone could destroy overnight. Build anyway. The good you do today, people will often forget tomorrow. Do good anyway. Give the world the best you have, and it may never be enough. Give the world the best you’ve got anyway. You see, in the final analysis, it is between you and your God … anyway.”17
I really liked this quote.  The footnote says it is sometimes attributed to Mother Teresa.  The statement about destroying made me think of cleaning my house, which is sometimes an exercise of futility!  I guess I have no excuse - I can clean the house unto the Lord, anyway. ...  :0
Sisters, it is always between us and the Lord. As President James E. Faust said: “‘What is the greatest need in the world?’ … ‘Is not the greatest need in all of the world for every person to have a personal, ongoing, daily, continuing relationship with the Savior?’ Having such a relationship can unchain the divinity within us, and nothing can make a greater difference in our lives as we come to know and understand our divine relationship with God.”18
I LOVE THIS QUOTE!  I didn't put it at the top, because it's technically President Faust, but we all need to have a close relationship with our Savior!  What do you think President Faust means by "unchain[ing] the divinity within us?"  How is your relationship with the Savior?  Has He saved you recently?  Have you recommitted to Him recently?  How can we develop a closer relationship with Him?
Similarly, Alma explained to his son, “Yea, let all thy doings be unto the Lord, and whithersoever thou goest let it be in the Lord; yea, let all thy thoughts be directed unto the Lord; yea, let the affections of thy heart be placed upon the Lord forever.”19
And President Russell M. Nelson has likewise taught us, “When we comprehend His voluntary Atonement, any sense of sacrifice on our part becomes completely overshadowed by a profound sense of gratitude for the privilege of serving Him.”20
I have had people thank me for service, and it often makes me uncomfortable.  Our family has also been the recipients of much service.   I really feel like I have been given so much that everything I do is paying it forward.
Sisters, I testify that when Jesus Christ, through the power of His Atonement, works on us and in us, He begins to work through us to bless others. We serve them, but we do so by loving and serving Him. We become what the scripture describes: “Every man [and woman] seeking the interest of his [or her] neighbor, and doing all things with an eye single to the glory of God.”21
Maybe our bishop knew that was the lesson my husband and I would learn from those early and well-intentioned, yet not perfect, efforts to minister to God’s beloved sons and daughters. I bear my personal and sure witness of the goodness and love He shares with us even as we strive to serve for Him. In the sacred name of Jesus Christ, amen.
Beautiful ending.  Let us move from good intentions to good works by serving Him!

Wednesday, March 6, 2019

Let's Discuss: "Prepare to Meet God," by Quentin L. Cook

By Elder Quentin L. Cook of the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles
Sunday afternoon session, April 1, 2018

Hymn recommendations:
17  Awake, Ye Saints of God, Awake!
55  Lo, the Mighty God Appearing!
229  Today, While the Sun Shines

Favorite quote:
In the Lord's Church, the only culture we adhere to and teach is the culture of the gospel of Jesus Christ.  The unity we seek is to be unified with the Savior and His teachings.
One-sentence synopsis:
Our commission is (still) to gather Israel, seal families together, and prepare the world for the Second Coming of the Lord.
Something to put on the board:
Prepare to meet God
Talk and Discussion:

I'll be honest - April 2018 was one of my most favorite general conferences ever.  The solemn assembly when President Nelson was sustained was amazing.  The talks had lots of messages for me.  There was an exhilarating feeling of something big about to happen.  I was studying the scriptures one morning a couple weeks ago, and this talk (open on the floor next to me) caught my eye, and I felt that I should study it a little more in depth even though it's not the most recent conference.  I really love the title, don't you?  "Prepare to Meet God."  That has so many connotations.  This can be in reference to the purpose of life:  "This life is the time ... to prepare to meet God" (Alma 34:32).  The title can be in reference to the Second Coming.  It can be in reference to the Second Comforter.  It can be in reference to death.  It can be in reference to repentance.  So as we analyze this talk, we will look for the meaning Elder Cook is conveying.  It may very well be more than one!  He split his talk into 3 parts, 1- an introduction of the three keys, 2 - analysis of where we stand with each, and 3 - some counsel on righteousness, unity, and equality - all components of each of the three keys/responsibilities of the Church and its members.

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Eliza R. Snow, speaking of the Kirtland Temple dedication (which she attended), said: “The ceremonies of that dedication may be rehearsed, but no mortal language can describe the heavenly manifestations of that memorable day. Angels appeared to some, while a sense of divine presence was realized by all present, and each heart was filled with joy inexpressible and full of glory.”1
I thought this was a very interesting beginning for a talk.  While I believe they happen, and historically we have records of many, we do not seem to currently talk or promote talk about dramatic, spiritual experiences - angels, gifts of the Spirit, and manifestations like the Day of Pentecost.  At the end of his talk, Elder Cook will testify of divine revelations to current leaders.  But more than this, Elder Cook is setting the stage for the keys restored this day.
The divine manifestations that occurred in the Kirtland Temple were foundational to the purpose of the restored Church of Jesus Christ to bring to pass the salvation and exaltation of our Heavenly Father’s children.2 As we prepare to meet God, we can know what our divinely appointed responsibilities are by reviewing the sacred keys restored in the Kirtland Temple.
Elder Cook seems to imply that preparing to meet God is an overarching purpose of life.  This is interesting to me because it is one of the three missions of the church, but he singles it out - either as all-encompassing, most important, or what he is especially stressing in this talk.

When I was younger, we would often have lessons on the threefold mission of the church:  Proclaim the Gospel, Perfect the Saints, and Redeem the Dead.  These three purposes have roots in the events of the dedication of the Kirtland temple!  I had never really thought of it that way before, but I'm jumping ahead.  Let's go on with Elder Cook.
In the dedicatory prayer, the Prophet Joseph Smith humbly petitioned the Lord “to accept of this house … which thou didst command us to build.”3
One week later, on Easter Sunday, the Lord appeared in a magnificent vision and accepted His temple. This occurred on April 3, 1836, almost exactly 182 years ago from this Easter Sunday. It was also the Passover season—one of those rare times when Easter and Passover overlap. After the vision closed, three ancient prophets, Moses, Elias, and Elijah, appeared and committed keys which were essential to accomplish the Lord’s purpose for His restored Church in this dispensation. That purpose has been simply, but eloquently, defined as gathering Israel, sealing them as families, and preparing the world for the Lord’s Second Coming.4
Did you notice that there is a week between the petition and the glorious manifestations?  I wonder if it seemed a little anti-climactic at the time of petitioning.  What does this teach us about waiting on the Lord?  They put their all into this temple, sacrificed time, money, and labor to the cause; built a beautiful temple in the days of their poverty.  What have you sacrificed for the Lord?  How has He blessed you for your offerings?

Elder Cook also points out that Easter Sunday and Passover coincided, and that this was significant.  Do you know of other major events or developments that have happened when Easter and Passover have coincided?  That could be a fun study.  In 2018, for example, we sustained a new prophet, and started the Ministering program.  In 2019 AND 2020, they are scheduled to coincide again!  Here's some of the past years I was able to find.  2018, 2015, 2012,

Here are some of the upcoming years:  2019, 2020, 2022, 2023, 2026, 2028, 2029, 2030, 2031, 2032.  Is it more significant when the Passover supper coincides with Good Friday?  Since Christ's last supper was a Passover supper, then maybe yes.  Those years are fewer:  2018, 2019, 2022, 2029, 2032, etc.  I'm not going to go into this in this blog post - maybe a future one.  Just something tangential that might be interesting.  Comment below with your thoughts.

The keys restored April 3, 1836 are essential to the purpose of His restored church.  I mentioned the threefold purpose of the church.  Elder Cook mentions them here, but I am going to number them as he addresses them in his talk later on, so 1 - gathering Israel, 3 - sealing them as families, and 2 - preparing the world for the Second Coming.  I wonder here - he seems to be equating preparing to meet God (the title) with preparing the world for the Second Coming.  This is one way we (or some) will meet God, so that makes sense.  Although, in a sense, we could say gathering Israel is preparing some to meet God through the ordinances (godliness is manifest Doctrine & Covenants 84:20), and in a sense sealing families prepares us to meet God, because there must be a welding link of us back to Adam.
For both Elijah and Moses to appear was a “striking parallel … [with] Jewish tradition, according to which Moses and Elijah would arrive together at the ‘end of time.’”5 In our doctrine, this appearance accomplished the foundational restoration of certain keys “given … for the last days and for the last time, in the which is the dispensation of the fulness of times.”6
This seems to be an aside, but an interesting one.  Can you think of other Jewish traditions the Church of Jesus Christ has fulfilled or will fulfill or corresponds with?
The Kirtland Temple, both in location and size, was relatively obscure. But in terms of its enormous significance to mankind, it was eternity-shaping. Ancient prophets restored priesthood keys for the eternal saving ordinances of the gospel of Jesus Christ. This resulted in overwhelming joy for faithful members.
Can you think of other relatively obscure, eternity-shaping events?  How about a stable in Bethlehem, so obscure the king did not know what had happened or where when wise men inquired of him?  When Jesus Christ lived on earth, His fame was not known worldwide.  Very few were there in the Garden of Gethsemane when the fate of a world was in the balance.  When Gentiles began escaping persecution to come to America, no one thought much of it (maybe "good riddance," or "not my problem anymore"), but it paved the way for a land of liberty, and a nation "mighty above all" (3 Nephi 20:27) where the Church of Jesus Christ could be restored.  What else?
These keys provide the “power from on high”7 for divinely appointed responsibilities that constitute the primary purpose of the Church.8 On that wonderful Easter day in the Kirtland Temple, three keys were restored:
First, Moses appeared and committed the keys of the gathering of Israel from the four parts of the earth, which is missionary work.9
Second, Elias appeared and committed the keys of the dispensation of the gospel of Abraham, which includes the restoration of the Abrahamic covenant.10 President Russell M. Nelson has taught that the purpose of the covenant keys is to prepare members for the kingdom of God. He said, “We know who we are and [we know] what God expects of us.”11
Third, Elijah appeared and committed the keys of the sealing power in this dispensation, which is family history work and temple ordinances enabling salvation for the living and the dead.12
Could these three keys relate to us personally?  For example, the first key is for missionary work.  Each of us, individually, has a mission(s), sets examples for others, has premortal covenants to fulfill.  Second, each of us is building Zion in our hearts, homes, and communities - you could say the Second Comforter is like a personal Second Coming.  Third, realizing temple covenants is one of the purposes of us going to the temple.  We also have an obligation to find our kindred dead.
There are, under the direction of the First Presidency and Quorum of the Twelve, three executive councils at Church headquarters that oversee these divinely appointed responsibilities based on the keys that were restored in the Kirtland Temple. They are the Missionary Executive Council, the Priesthood and Family Executive Council, and the Temple and Family History Executive Council.
So neat.  I enjoyed learning a little more about Church organization.  It is interesting that priesthood and family is separate from temple and family history, but it makes sense in context.  Now to part 2 of Elder Cook's talk:
Where Do We Stand Today in Fulfilling These Divinely Appointed Responsibilities?
First, with respect to Moses’s restoration of the keys for the gathering of Israel, today almost 70,000 missionaries are spread across the earth preaching His gospel to gather His elect. This is the commencement of the fulfillment of the great and marvelous work Nephi foresaw among both the Gentiles and the house of Israel. Nephi saw our time when the Saints of God would be upon all the face of the earth, but their numbers would be small because of wickedness. However, he foresaw that they would be “armed with righteousness and with the power of God in great glory.”13 When viewed across the brief history of the restored Church, the missionary effort has been most remarkable. We are seeing the fulfillment of Nephi’s vision. Though our numbers are relatively few, we will continue our effort and outreach to those who will respond to the Savior’s message.
I LOVED this part.  A careful reading of the scriptures, especially the Book of Mormon, shows us that we have a long way to go.  The great and marvelous work is still only just begun!  Even with the hastening, a few years ago when the missionary age dropped, and there was an influx, we will yet hasten more.  Elder Cook's statement shows that Church leadership understands this.  It also reminds me now of President Nelson in an interview in 2018, when he told us to eat our vitamins - remember?  President Nelson said,
"We're just at the exponential phase of growth, yes, but it will continue.  The Lord said, 'I will hasten my work in its time,' and He makes good on His promises.  We're witnesses to a process of restoration.  If you think the Church has been fully restored, you're just seeing the beginning. There's much more to come.  Wait till next year, and then the next year.  Eat your vitamin pills. Get your rest. It's going to be exciting."

70,000 missionaries is awesome and inspiring.  One day there will be 144,000!
Second, Elias appeared and committed the dispensation of the gospel of Abraham, declaring that in us and our seed all generations after us should be blessed. In this conference, significant guidance has been presented to assist in perfecting the Saints and preparing them for the kingdom of God.14 The announcement in the priesthood session with respect to elders and high priests quorums will unleash priesthood power and authority. Home and visiting teaching, now “ministering,” as taught so eloquently in this session, will prepare Latter-day Saints to meet God.
How does ministering prepare us to meet God?
Third, Elijah committed the sealing keys of this dispensation. For those of us alive at this time, the increase in temples and family history work is phenomenal. This pace will continue and accelerate until the Second Coming of the Savior, lest the whole earth “be utterly wasted at his coming.”15
Have you noticed an acceleration in family history and temple work?  I've noticed this year, 2019, many of my "shared" ordinances have been completed, and many sessions in my local (small) temple have been filled to capacity.  One day when I forgot my purse (recommend), I watched as the endowment filled before 5:30pm, then initiatories and sealings filled, and still more people arrived, disappointed that they would have to return for the 8pm session.  I heard later that the 8pm session also filled, and others were turned away.  I know this is not full fulfillment, but it is exciting, and a sign to me of the acceleration of the work.
Family history work, heaven-blessed by technology, has dramatically increased in the past few years. We would be unwise to become complacent about this divinely appointed responsibility and expect that Aunt Jane or some other committed relative will take care of it. Let me share President Joseph Fielding Smith’s jarring comments: “None is exempt from this great obligation. It is required of the apostle as well as the humblest elder [or sister]. Place, or distinction, or long service in the Church … will not entitle one to disregard the salvation of one’s dead.”16
We now have temples across the world and the resources of the patron assistance fund to help those in need who are far from a temple.
As individuals, we would do well to evaluate our effort in pursuing missionary work, temple and family history work, and preparations to meet God.
How will you evaluate your efforts?

Here's an idea:  Take a moment, maybe with a piece of paper to record your thoughts and impressions, and evaluate your efforts.  I try to do at least a little family history every day, since October 2018 conference and the social media fast challenge to the women.  I have definitely been blessed with success and inspiration there.  My biggest missionary efforts are with my children right now, although I am good at engaging people in conversation everywhere I go.  I am blessed to live in the South, where people are friendly, and openly talk about religion, so it is relatively easy to bring up.  Preparations to meet God.  This one is more personal; I won't share all my thoughts, but say, I think about Zion often.  I long for it.  I teach my kids about it.  I almost feel like I have one foot in Zion, while the other foot traverses the mundane.  I want Zion in my heart, in my home, in my ward, in my community, and on the earth.

Now for part 3 of Elder Cook's talk, which he splits into 3 sections.
Righteousness, Unity, and Equality before the Lord Undergird These Sacred Responsibilities
With respect to righteousness, this life is the time for all of us to prepare to meet God.17 The Book of Mormon provides multiple examples of the tragic consequences when individuals or groups fail to keep the commandments of God.18
During my lifetime, worldly issues and concerns have moved from one extreme to another—from frivolous and trivial pursuits to serious immorality. It is commendable that nonconsensual immorality has been exposed and denounced.19 Such nonconsensual immorality is against the laws of God and of society. Those who understand God’s plan should also oppose consensual immorality, which is also a sin. The family proclamation to the world warns “that individuals who violate covenants of chastity, who abuse spouse or offspring [or, for that matter, anyone else] … will one day stand accountable before God.”20
Has our so-called "tolerance" gone too far?  How can we oppose consensual immorality without being judgmental?  How can we be friends to our neighbors who believe or act differently?  It still shocks me how openly immorality is accepted and promoted in television and movies - like it's no big deal; like it is normal.  Faithful believers are portrayed as crazy or fanatics - or nonexistent, like there is no God.  Such a disservice to truth and happiness!
As we look around, we see the devastation of wickedness and addiction at every turn. If, as individuals, we are really concerned about the Savior’s ultimate judgment of us, we should seek repentance. I am afraid many people no longer feel accountable to God and do not turn to the scriptures or the prophets for guidance. If we, as a society, would contemplate the consequences of sin, there would be massive public opposition to pornography and the objectification of women.21 As Alma told his son Corianton in the Book of Mormon, “Wickedness never was happiness.”22
Whoa!  That is bold, and I feel the truth in Elder Cook's statement about pornography.  I would love to see massive public opposition to pornography and the objectification of women.  How can we be a part?  What can we do?  What are the consequences he is talking about?  For example, I thought about the consequences listed in the Family Proclamation - accountability before God, and calamities.  What legacy are we creating for our daughters (maybe especially) and also our sons?
In regard to unity, the Savior declared, “If ye are not one ye are not mine.”23 We know that the spirit of contention is of the devil.24
Great start.  Contention seems to reign on many platforms of social media.  The 2016 election campaigns comes to my mind - I thought the contention was unlike anything I have ever seen.  People de-friending people.  People ignorant on how to express views without resorting to arguments or name-calling; inability to agree to disagree.  Disrespect and division.
In our day, the scriptural imperative for unity is largely ignored, and for many people the emphasis is on tribalism,25 often based on status, gender, race, and wealth. In many countries, if not most, people are deeply divided about how to live. In the Lord’s Church, the only culture we adhere to and teach is the culture of the gospel of Jesus Christ. The unity we seek is to be unified with the Savior and His teachings.26
I love this.  In the Church of Jesus Christ, we do not divide into groups by gender, orientation, race, political party, economic status, education, fashion, hobbies, or any other division society may create/uphold.  None of that matters.  That is why we do not use these to define ourselves.  How DO we define ourselves?  Saints or disciples of Christ, seeking to be like Him.  How does the Savior divide people?  Sinners and hypocrites, maybe?

Next, Elder Cook will talk about equality with regard to each of the three keys he introduced in part one.
As we look at the primary purposes of the Church, they are all based on equality before the Lord27 and following the culture of the gospel of Jesus Christ. With respect to missionary work, the principal qualifications for baptism are humbling oneself before God and coming forth with a broken heart and contrite spirit.28 Education, wealth, race, or national origin are not even considered.
In addition, missionaries humbly serve where called. They do not attempt to serve based on worldly standards of status or preparation for future careers. They serve with all their heart, might, mind, and strength wherever they are assigned. They do not choose their missionary companions, and they seek diligently to develop Christlike attributes,29 which are at the heart of the culture of Jesus Christ.
The scriptures give guidance for our most important relationships. The Savior taught that the first commandment was to “love the Lord thy God.” And the second is to “love thy neighbour as thyself.”30
The Savior additionally explained that everyone is our neighbor.31 The Book of Mormon makes it clear that there must be no -ites, tribes, or classes.32 We must be united and equal before God.
Sacred ordinances and divine responsibilities are built upon this premise. I would expect that your own experiences in the temple would be similar to mine. When I would leave my workaday world in San Francisco and arrive at the Oakland Temple, I would experience an overwhelming feeling of love and peace. A major part of that was sensing I was closer to God and His purposes. The saving ordinances were my primary focus, but a significant part of those beautiful feelings was the equality and unity that permeate the temple. Everyone is dressed in white clothing. There is no evidence of wealth, rank, or educational attainment; we are all brothers and sisters humbling ourselves before God.
In the sacred sealing room, the eternal marriage ordinance is the same for everyone. I love the fact that the couple from the humblest background and the couple from the wealthiest background have exactly the same experience. They wear the same type of robes and make the same covenants across the same altar. They also receive the same eternal priesthood blessings. This is accomplished in a beautiful temple built by the tithes of the Saints as the sacred house of the Lord.
Fulfilling divinely appointed responsibilities, based on righteousness, unity, and equality before the Lord, brings personal happiness and peace in this world and prepares us for eternal life in the world to come.33 It prepares us to meet God.34
Here, Elder Cook tells us that preparing for eternal life is preparing to meet God, adding more meaning to the title.
We pray that each of you, regardless of your current circumstances, will counsel with your bishop and be worthy of a temple recommend.35
We are grateful that many more members are preparing to go to the temple. There has been a significant increase in the number of worthy adult temple recommend holders for many years. Limited-use recommends for worthy youth have increased dramatically over the last two years. Clearly the faithful core membership of the Church has never been stronger.
In conclusion, please be assured that senior Church leaders who preside over the divinely appointed purposes of the Church receive divine assistance. This guidance comes from the Spirit and sometimes directly from the Savior. Both kinds of spiritual guidance are given. I am grateful to have received such assistance. But guidance is given in the Lord’s time, line upon line and precept upon precept,36 when “an omniscient Lord deliberately chooses to school us.”37 Guidance for the Church as a whole comes only to His prophet.
Wow.  Rarely to general authorities talk publicly about manifestations of the Savior.  Elder Cook here testifies that he and they do receive personal assistance sometimes directly from the Savior.
We have all had the privilege of sustaining President Russell M. Nelson as our prophet and President of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints in this conference. The Twelve, as a group and individually, had a significant spiritual experience when we laid our hands on President Nelson’s head and President Dallin H. Oaks, acting as voice, ordained him and set him apart as President of the Church. I testify that he was foreordained and has been prepared his entire life to be the Lord’s prophet for our day. In the name of Jesus Christ, amen.
I like how he says the twelve as a group and individually had a significant spiritual experience.  This hearkens back to the beginning of the talk with Eliza R. Snow's account of the whole group experiencing a divine presence and joy, while some saw angels.  It sounds like this ordination was of the same vein.  Have you ever been a part of an experience where the whole group received a significant spiritual experience?  I wonder if the solemn assembly could be considered one such.  Sometimes in the temple I feel a significant energy/power during prayer when the Spirit just flows unrestrained, and I wonder if others feel it, too.

I feel like there is still more to get out of this talk.  I may go through it yet again, but I think there's enough discussion to publish  :)